I was running around doing some errands yesterday, and while walking towards the cash of an electronics store, I noticed a bin of DVDs for sale.
At the very top, as if just placed there perfectly for me, was Gattaca.
This movie right here, is one of my favourite movies period.
It’s a little old now (came out in 1997) and it’s a bit slow-paced, but the concept and message in this movie are incredible.
Without giving away any spoilers, Gattaca is about a society that lives in a “perfect” world. Parents choose how they want their babies; everything from what gender the child will be, to the colour of their eyes.
Basically, they order their kids as if they were ordering furniture.
Anyways, in this perfect world, there are a few “imperfect” humans or “defects” who end up trapped in a life without any opportunities or any possibilities of success.
The main character is a “defect” who ends up finding a way of sneaking into the superior class of society and completely defies his life plan.
He’s one of the best at what he does and nobody has a clue that he’s actually a defect.
It’s an incredible movie that really points out the fact that no matter who you are or who others think you are, you can do ANYTHING.
NOTHING is impossible and regardless of your past or present; the ONLY THING getting in the way of having EVERYTHING you have EVER wanted and everything that you have ever dreamed of, is YOUR OWN BELIEF.
Ignore everybody that says otherwise.
Sometimes that has to include loved ones. Your family and friends will always say they support you and believe in you, but truth is, there are usually limits to their belief.
Plus, if they don’t fully believe in themselves, how can they fully believe in you?
It’s a bold statement, but it’s true.
People will always remind you of “who you are”, but the reality is that’s only the perception of who you are. You can be anybody and anything you want to be. Not to sound corny, but it’s true.
It really hit me when I first moved to a different city. I had never been there before in my life and didn’t really know anybody there. I decided to use this to my advantage and become a new me. Shed all my bad habits and develop new ones. I was a stranger to everybody so nobody would be able to say “that’s not you”.
I became a completely new person.
I gained a whole new sense of self-confidence. And that self-confidence allowed me to realize that I was FAR more capable than I ever realized before.
Even if you aren’t moving to a new city and you’re always around people who know your habits and your “abilities”; you can still become a “new you”.
What’s the worst that will happen? People will comment? Some might crack jokes and try to ridicule you?
Let them be negative. That’s not your issue; it’s theirs.
They don’t have enough confidence or belief to be the best version of themselves, so they’re going to try and keep you down as well. Misery likes company, right?
If you allow that to affect you, it’s not them holding you back; it’s you. You have to make sure that NOTHING stops you.
This movie is an incredible visualization of that. And it doesn’t just have to be a movie or a story. It can be reality, and it is reality, but it’s just up to you to let it be.
One of my favourite lines (there are many great quotables in the movie) is during a scene where the main character (“the defect”), is swimming in a race against a “perfect specimen” and is winning. The perfect specimen asks the defect how he’s able to continue swimming for so long and with such stamina. The defect replies “I never saved anything for the way back”.
I love that line.
And it’s true. Most of us do that. We create this “exit strategy” in our minds whenever we approach a new task. A “Plan B.”
I’m not saying that you shouldn’t have a Plan B. That’s okay, but 9 times out of 10, people only have a Plan B because they don’t truly believe in their Plan A. They’re preparing themselves for failure.
Maybe it’s just me, but I can’t prepare myself for failure.
Anybody who knows me knows how intense I can get. For me, it’s all or nothing.
I’m either going to die successful or die still working on it. But no matter what, when I die, nobody will ever be able to say I didn’t give it my all.
The main character in this movie said “I Never Saved Anything For The Way Back”.
Kurt Cobain said “It’s Better To Burn Out Than Fade Away”.
Malcolm X said “By Any Means Necessary”.
Tupac said “Against All Odds”.
Hell, even Nike’s motto is “Just Do It”.
There’s so many of these quotes, but they all have the same message, “GO FOR IT!”
Whatever motivates you, whatever gets you going, whatever pushes you to go that extra mile; just find it and use it every single chance you get, because there is NOTHING that is holding you back from defying all odds and acheiving all your dreams.
Believe in yourself and anything is possible.